There are lots of great apps out there that allow you to control your Mac from your iPhone (may current fav is Rowmote Pro). But, is there a way to control my iPhone from my Mac? I want to be able to control the iPod functions on my iPhone from my Mac.
— Todd Peperkorn
I've never seen anything that does this, no.
The app is called "Tunes Remote" and you can control your iPhone music player with it.