Gary, have watched your YouTube video Reminders, as well as several others. I want to send a list on my iPhone 8 to my daughter-in-law who also has an iPhone (probably newer than an 8). All the videos tell how to composed the list, manage the list, and send the list; but none who how to receive the list. Maybe the answer is too simple. But, I composed the list, I sent the list in Messages, but she does not get the list. What she gets on the message I sent is a box titled Sign In To iCloud. In the box it wants an Apple id. Our question is whose Apple id? If I give her (or anybody) my Apple id, why am I giving away security-wise for the convenience of using Reminders? Or does she use hers? Nobody ways. Thanks for your help!